“You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with” – Jim Rohn

Most of us have probably heard this quote maybe from a famous motivational speaker or life coach or some other business leader. A lot of times, it’s used for our professional or social lives. If you want to be successful, surround yourself with successful people, etc.

While the quote certainly holds true in the professional/social context, there’s a missing piece – our faith lives.

When we reflect and evaluate on our lives and the 5 people that we do spend most of our time with, we can ask ourselves – is my faith better or worse when I am around these people?

In our reflections on this idea, there’s a few things we should point out.

First, men need other men. Many leaders in the Church (and in the secular world) have identified a growing problem today – the lack of authentic male friendships. Of course, true friendship isn’t something that just happens. It takes effort. And, while it can be awkward at first and take a long time, we need to give ourselves the opportunity to build and grow authentic friendships.

Second, be friends with the Saints. While we can’t sit down for coffee with Saint Pope John Paul II, we can read and learn about his life (and the lives of many other Saints.) We can also spend time with the Saints and not only learn about their lives, but read what they thought, what they believed, how they acted, etc. In doing so, we can “raise the average.”

Now of course, books can’t replace in person friendships. But, both can support us in our faith journey.

 

Be the Men.

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